The Self Made Men's SOFFA Program is a place for all of those that need help or advice,or maybe some support through another's transition. Whether you're a boyfriend, girlfriend, best friend, brother, cousin, mother or someone's biggest ally... It is a common thought that when we start to transition, something in us had known for some time that this was coming. When we come out however, is when the acceptance process for those involved with us socially begin. It is rare to find someone that can instantly just adjust to the new information, but it does happen. If you've found yourself on this site, chances are you're looking for some answers and some help. By clicking on the categories above, you will be directed to more specific articles and information. Please also consider looking through our FAQ under the About Us header, as well as the Resource section dedicated to the SOFFA Program. If you have some advice that has worked for you and you would like to share it with us and our readers, please use the link below to share your experience.